Pin authentik-postgres to the image CNPG filled in at creation
(postgresql:17.4). Later operators default to PostgreSQL 18, and since
1.26 a higher major in the image triggers an offline in-place major
upgrade. immich-postgres already pins its pgvecto.rs image.
Turn on ENABLE_INSTANCE_MANAGER_INPLACE_UPDATES so the five operator hops
(1.25 -> 1.30, one minor at a time as the docs recommend) swap the
instance manager inside the running pods instead of restarting both
single-instance databases each time.