node001: send the visitor's address to the home cluster

The stream server on 443 now starts each connection with a PROXY header.
nginx sends it to every upstream or none, so Stalwart (8443) and the
local nginx for Gatus and ntfy (8444) get theirs through a hop on
8445/8446 that takes it off again; nothing changes for them.

Deploy after the Gateway accepts the header, or the tunneled hosts stop
answering until it does.

gateway/proxy-protocol.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,23 @@
+# node001 passes TLS for the tunneled hosts through without opening it, so
+# without this every request arrives from 46.224.26.65. Wordfence locks that
+# address out after 20 failed logins (2026-10-26), and with it everyone who
+# logs in to scoutingmbg.nl. node001 puts a PROXY header with the visitor's
+# address in front of each connection; Envoy takes the address from there
+# and adds it to X-Forwarded-For.
+#
+# Optional, because s2 and ntfy2 point straight at home and their clients
+# send no header, and neither does node001's proxy on port 80. The price:
+# whoever connects to the home address directly can send a header of their
+# own and claim any address.
+apiVersion: gateway.envoyproxy.io/v1alpha1
+kind: ClientTrafficPolicy
+metadata:
+  name: proxy-protocol
+  namespace: envoy-gateway-system
+spec:
+  targetRefs:
+  - group: gateway.networking.k8s.io
+    kind: Gateway
+    name: homelab
+  proxyProtocol:
+    optional: true

nix-infra-machine/nodes/node001.nix

@@ -173,12 +173,18 @@ in
     #   - mail.rubenhensen.nl (and anything else) → local stalwart on 8443
     #   - tunneled hosts → home cluster ingress on 443
     #   - s1 / ntfy1.rubenhensen.nl → local nginx on 8444 (Gatus, ntfy)
+    #
+    # Each connection starts with a PROXY header that carries the visitor's
+    # address, so the home cluster sees who is asking instead of this box
+    # (gateway/proxy-protocol.yaml in k8scd). nginx sends the header to
+    # every upstream or none, so the local ones go through a hop on
+    # 8445/8446 that takes it off again.
     streamConfig = ''
       map $ssl_preread_server_name $tunnel_upstream {
 ${sniMapEntries}
-        s1.rubenhensen.nl 127.0.0.1:8444;
-        ntfy1.rubenhensen.nl 127.0.0.1:8444;
-        default 127.0.0.1:8443;
+        s1.rubenhensen.nl 127.0.0.1:8446;
+        ntfy1.rubenhensen.nl 127.0.0.1:8446;
+        default 127.0.0.1:8445;
       }
 
       server {
@@ -186,6 +192,17 @@ ${sniMapEntries}
         listen [::]:443;
         proxy_pass $tunnel_upstream;
         ssl_preread on;
+        proxy_protocol on;
+      }
+
+      server {
+        listen 127.0.0.1:8445 proxy_protocol;
+        proxy_pass 127.0.0.1:8443;
+      }
+
+      server {
+        listen 127.0.0.1:8446 proxy_protocol;
+        proxy_pass 127.0.0.1:8444;
       }
     '';